FAQ 5: But She Cheated on Me!!!! Does Infidelity Affect Alimony or Custody? “Fault” or “No Fault” divorce?
Saturday, May 14th, 2011People often want to know how it affects their divorce when one of the couple has had an affair or committed some infidelity, in heart or body. As attorneys, we have had this question arise from both sides of the fence.
First, let’s talk about “fault.” It’s a bit confusing because people speak about fault in two different ways in Utah divorces.
First, sometimes people call Utah a “no fault” State. This is a statement about the “grounds” for getting divorced. Second, parties to a divorce will want to know if alimony, other monetary awards, custody or parent-time in the divorce can be resolved more favorably for them if they can show the other party is “at fault” for causing the deterioration of the marriage. The most prevalent time this argument is made is when the other party had an affair or committed some other infidelity. Here the person is asking a question about the law regarding “fault” and how it affects outcome. These are two very different things.
We will call the first usage of “fault” GROUNDS and the second usage of “fault” OUTCOME.
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